My Story Moving to Baltimore, Maryland
Written by Cassie Barreda
·12 mins read
Moving to Baltimore, Maryland, was a life-altering decision I never saw coming. I was on a roller coaster of mania and trepidation as I carefully packed up my stuff, tied up all the loose ends in my former life, and got myself ready to make a leap into adventure in a city filled with life, culture, and history. I could picture a cornucopia of opportunities that would allow me to write my very own chapter, all in an entirely new setting, far removed from the prestigious laying of my hometown.
Having spent the better part of my life living in small towns and rural settings, the idea of moving into a bustling urban world was something that was both intimidating and exhilarating. Having a near-community expatriation of a small town atmosphere where everybody knew everybody, the chatter coming from neighbors of ordinary pursuits was accompanied by the scent of fragrant blossoms from flowerbeds running alongside households. The leap to a city like Baltimore represented quite a huge fairy-tale change—not just through a great distance but bringing many new experiences and giving room to opportunities, along with challenges. I had maybe been to Baltimore a couple of times in my life, and each visit only piqued my interest more and set me wondering how well the old world could coalesce with contemporary life. The old neighborhoods, inviting waterfront views, and busy arts scene of the town filled me with that zest to explore the vaults of this curiously interesting city and bask in the varied climate of life it had cultivated.
When I arrived in Baltimore, I was greeted by my new neighbors, whose friendly smiles and genuine hospitality sent all the jitters away from a city I found initially overwhelming. They tried to introduce themselves, take me around the neighborhood, and share some precious insider tips that would have made adapting to the city much easier. Those first days, I distinctly remember, were especially marked by a burgeoning sense of community, reducing some of the moving anxiety I'd harbored. Most of my first days were spent unpacking and settling into my warm little apartment in Fells Point, that delightful neighborhood straight out of a dream. The shuttered and colored row houses looking out over the harbor were like a postcard of something which I had always wished to see from afar. The charming cobblestone streets, the quaintness of old architecture, and the very essence of freshly caught fish wafting through the air only added to the magical aura of my newly found home, which slowly replaced the previous feeling of having to fit in.
Among many highlights, I most fondly remember my first week and a journey to the renowned Inner Harbor. It was a sunny afternoon when I decided to stroll along the waterfront and let my senses get lost in the sights and sounds of the city. The iconic Domino Sugars sign rose above me like a welcoming beacon, and the sight of sailboats gliding manic peacefully and exhilaratingly across the water gave me a sense of calm and excitement. The Feet of the people, strangers, met with one another amidst the joyous atmosphere of the Inner Harbor; the tourist and the locals all mixing, sharing their stories, and experiences alike. The pulse of city life within me further sparked my excitement, while I considered the friendships and connections I could make in my new city.
As I explored Baltimore's varied neighborhoods, this quickly became one of my favorite pastimes. Each area had its character and charms to offer; experiences waited to be uncovered by its visitors. I took a stroll through Hampden; a funky, colorful neighborhood filled with boutique shops, eclectic vintage stores, and delightful restaurants that served the local flavors of the city. In Hampden, I happened upon the annual HonFest, a two-day celebration of Baltimore's unique, much-revered "hon" culture. It was filled with beehive hairdo fans and a general admiration for everything kitschy. The festival was an unforgettable kaleidoscope of laughter, music, and an endless array of fantastic food that perfectly embodied the flavors of Baltimore! The spirit of community was alive and kicking, and as people partook in dancing and singing with friends, old and new, I was caught in the infectious atmosphere feeling a warm sense of belonging for the first time in my new city.
It was high on my priority list to stop by and see the famous Baltimore Museum of Art to take a peek at the impressive collection of works-from antiquity to modern times.Deprived of the class system and the official MMFA, the Museum was a haven for me-a sea of creativity where discovery germinated-a workshop of sorts where many a workshop unleashed within me a long-dead light of artistic expression and enabled learning from talents who expanded my abilities and stretched my potential. I practically bared my soul into painting and mixed media, restored a means of self-expression that had been buried beneath the boredom of old routines. Each brush stroke felt liberating; each creation resonated with the ever-changing canvas in which I was grafted in this new chapter of my life.
As I grew into the regular rhythm of my new life, I began to build some local friends. The participation in the local book club came as an excellent method of meeting fellow literature lovers through a multitude of genres, conversation, and discussions that kept feeding my mind and expanded my outlook. Some of Baltimore's secret gems consisted of tiny independent bookstores and intimate poetry readings that spoke to the heart of my new enthusiasm for creativity and expression. The vibe of artistry was not mere atmosphere-it became contagious. In no time at all, my weekends were filled with weekly visits to busy farmers' markets, where I reveled in the dazzling array of fresh produce and handmade goods that showcased the talent of the locals. Short conversations with the vendors and customers about organic tomatoes and artisan breads turned into fulfilling exchanges-a simple joy of community engagement that I so missed from my small-town back home but bloomed so radiantly against the urban backdrop.
But my life was not all devoid of troubles or sorrow in this new world. There were days when I felt a sharp pang of homesickness while looking back to the sweetness of that well-known life where mornings were calm in the garden of my parents, while homey smells of godly meals drifted there, and we sat around a fire pit in the evenings with friends, swapping stories and laughter under the stars. The complications of urban life were always dear, especially when I felt like just another anonymous face lost in an unending stream of people. Of course, there were the tough lessons of learning to use public transport, adjusting to life in the city, occasionally dodging the noise pollution, let alone any many other things that made things tough. But then I would remind myself that in every new bout came the opportunity to grow up! Each time I successfully hopped on a bus or discovered the fastest route to some new place, I felt enveloped in pride like a reassuring pat on the back reminding me that I was not merely surviving but thriving.
In hindsight, my meeting in Baltimore has indeed been a progress for the better whereby it has ingrown me under unprecedented changes. The cultural and human flavor of the city and the real friends I’ve made have shown me what it feels like to be truly at home in Baltimore. I’ve changed from a shy new arrival into a confident city resident and a person optimistic about what happens around each corner. In maneuvering through the streets of the city, as I flow in and out of its eclectic rhythm, I am struck by the reminder that every new step taken in this lively space brings me a step nearer to living my best life. With each new day wait all the new experiences-a laugh from a new friend, the sweet smell of delicious food wafting through the air, and the thrill of artistic exploration-into the ever-changing story of my life in this wonderful city that I am proud to call home.
As I adapt to life in a new city and start thriving, I am comforted to feel part of fabric in Baltimore. From experiencing all the community events that contain a mixture of cultures to discovering my ideal coffee shop where I can enjoy time with a book while being carried away by the life energy around me, each of these moments creates layers on top of all my experiences. That's the beauty of starting fresh! I have come to the notion whereby uncertainty provides a makeshift frame of reference to my experiences. Every person I meet and experience I gather brought me firmly to the state where this strange city changed pretty rapidly to that empty canvas waiting for brush strokes of memories. Hence, onward I go exploring, chasing to unveil yet another of those lovely stories Baltimore is yet to share with me.
Having spent the better part of my life living in small towns and rural settings, the idea of moving into a bustling urban world was something that was both intimidating and exhilarating. Having a near-community expatriation of a small town atmosphere where everybody knew everybody, the chatter coming from neighbors of ordinary pursuits was accompanied by the scent of fragrant blossoms from flowerbeds running alongside households. The leap to a city like Baltimore represented quite a huge fairy-tale change—not just through a great distance but bringing many new experiences and giving room to opportunities, along with challenges. I had maybe been to Baltimore a couple of times in my life, and each visit only piqued my interest more and set me wondering how well the old world could coalesce with contemporary life. The old neighborhoods, inviting waterfront views, and busy arts scene of the town filled me with that zest to explore the vaults of this curiously interesting city and bask in the varied climate of life it had cultivated.
When I arrived in Baltimore, I was greeted by my new neighbors, whose friendly smiles and genuine hospitality sent all the jitters away from a city I found initially overwhelming. They tried to introduce themselves, take me around the neighborhood, and share some precious insider tips that would have made adapting to the city much easier. Those first days, I distinctly remember, were especially marked by a burgeoning sense of community, reducing some of the moving anxiety I'd harbored. Most of my first days were spent unpacking and settling into my warm little apartment in Fells Point, that delightful neighborhood straight out of a dream. The shuttered and colored row houses looking out over the harbor were like a postcard of something which I had always wished to see from afar. The charming cobblestone streets, the quaintness of old architecture, and the very essence of freshly caught fish wafting through the air only added to the magical aura of my newly found home, which slowly replaced the previous feeling of having to fit in.
Among many highlights, I most fondly remember my first week and a journey to the renowned Inner Harbor. It was a sunny afternoon when I decided to stroll along the waterfront and let my senses get lost in the sights and sounds of the city. The iconic Domino Sugars sign rose above me like a welcoming beacon, and the sight of sailboats gliding manic peacefully and exhilaratingly across the water gave me a sense of calm and excitement. The Feet of the people, strangers, met with one another amidst the joyous atmosphere of the Inner Harbor; the tourist and the locals all mixing, sharing their stories, and experiences alike. The pulse of city life within me further sparked my excitement, while I considered the friendships and connections I could make in my new city.
As I explored Baltimore's varied neighborhoods, this quickly became one of my favorite pastimes. Each area had its character and charms to offer; experiences waited to be uncovered by its visitors. I took a stroll through Hampden; a funky, colorful neighborhood filled with boutique shops, eclectic vintage stores, and delightful restaurants that served the local flavors of the city. In Hampden, I happened upon the annual HonFest, a two-day celebration of Baltimore's unique, much-revered "hon" culture. It was filled with beehive hairdo fans and a general admiration for everything kitschy. The festival was an unforgettable kaleidoscope of laughter, music, and an endless array of fantastic food that perfectly embodied the flavors of Baltimore! The spirit of community was alive and kicking, and as people partook in dancing and singing with friends, old and new, I was caught in the infectious atmosphere feeling a warm sense of belonging for the first time in my new city.
It was high on my priority list to stop by and see the famous Baltimore Museum of Art to take a peek at the impressive collection of works-from antiquity to modern times.Deprived of the class system and the official MMFA, the Museum was a haven for me-a sea of creativity where discovery germinated-a workshop of sorts where many a workshop unleashed within me a long-dead light of artistic expression and enabled learning from talents who expanded my abilities and stretched my potential. I practically bared my soul into painting and mixed media, restored a means of self-expression that had been buried beneath the boredom of old routines. Each brush stroke felt liberating; each creation resonated with the ever-changing canvas in which I was grafted in this new chapter of my life.
As I grew into the regular rhythm of my new life, I began to build some local friends. The participation in the local book club came as an excellent method of meeting fellow literature lovers through a multitude of genres, conversation, and discussions that kept feeding my mind and expanded my outlook. Some of Baltimore's secret gems consisted of tiny independent bookstores and intimate poetry readings that spoke to the heart of my new enthusiasm for creativity and expression. The vibe of artistry was not mere atmosphere-it became contagious. In no time at all, my weekends were filled with weekly visits to busy farmers' markets, where I reveled in the dazzling array of fresh produce and handmade goods that showcased the talent of the locals. Short conversations with the vendors and customers about organic tomatoes and artisan breads turned into fulfilling exchanges-a simple joy of community engagement that I so missed from my small-town back home but bloomed so radiantly against the urban backdrop.
But my life was not all devoid of troubles or sorrow in this new world. There were days when I felt a sharp pang of homesickness while looking back to the sweetness of that well-known life where mornings were calm in the garden of my parents, while homey smells of godly meals drifted there, and we sat around a fire pit in the evenings with friends, swapping stories and laughter under the stars. The complications of urban life were always dear, especially when I felt like just another anonymous face lost in an unending stream of people. Of course, there were the tough lessons of learning to use public transport, adjusting to life in the city, occasionally dodging the noise pollution, let alone any many other things that made things tough. But then I would remind myself that in every new bout came the opportunity to grow up! Each time I successfully hopped on a bus or discovered the fastest route to some new place, I felt enveloped in pride like a reassuring pat on the back reminding me that I was not merely surviving but thriving.
In hindsight, my meeting in Baltimore has indeed been a progress for the better whereby it has ingrown me under unprecedented changes. The cultural and human flavor of the city and the real friends I’ve made have shown me what it feels like to be truly at home in Baltimore. I’ve changed from a shy new arrival into a confident city resident and a person optimistic about what happens around each corner. In maneuvering through the streets of the city, as I flow in and out of its eclectic rhythm, I am struck by the reminder that every new step taken in this lively space brings me a step nearer to living my best life. With each new day wait all the new experiences-a laugh from a new friend, the sweet smell of delicious food wafting through the air, and the thrill of artistic exploration-into the ever-changing story of my life in this wonderful city that I am proud to call home.
As I adapt to life in a new city and start thriving, I am comforted to feel part of fabric in Baltimore. From experiencing all the community events that contain a mixture of cultures to discovering my ideal coffee shop where I can enjoy time with a book while being carried away by the life energy around me, each of these moments creates layers on top of all my experiences. That's the beauty of starting fresh! I have come to the notion whereby uncertainty provides a makeshift frame of reference to my experiences. Every person I meet and experience I gather brought me firmly to the state where this strange city changed pretty rapidly to that empty canvas waiting for brush strokes of memories. Hence, onward I go exploring, chasing to unveil yet another of those lovely stories Baltimore is yet to share with me.